Do you choose your friends or your friends chose you?
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I don't use to check who choose who. I allow friendship to be organic and naturally. I don't compel relationship . Once am free with any person or group of people, i think friendship have started already. There is no need to compel or pressurize anybody to be my friend. Moreover, I try to restrict my circumference of friends because I don't have enough time for myself
Some of it they choose me as a friend and some of it I truly trust.
I barely make friends for some reasons.
From my point of view It is easy to get drawn to people who look attractive or seem cool. However, it is important to look beyond appearances and focus on a person's character and values and It's natural to want to be accepted by others, but it's important not to compromise one's values or beliefs just to fit in with a group of people
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Yesh the most important is not to force friendship
I believe that it goes both ways. If all choose their friends, no one will have any friends in my opinion.
I think friendship is mutual. I have three close friends. We met during high school days. We just got along so well that friendship grows naturally.
In the past, I had so many friends. But then, things had changed as the years go by. I need to be selective.
There are most people I can't deal with in terms of their characters, behaviors and the likes. I can't stress my self with all that.
I usually choose my friends. I do not like spending time with people who will backstab you eventually.
