How can one relate with a mean mother inlaw

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My dear friend is going through a phase like this now. For no just cause the mother-in-law just do mean things to her. How can one deal with this?

 

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Ay, hehehe, I better leave that house. There is no need to suffer. I am single and in case it happens to me, no way to be created like that.

 

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Starmix said:

Ay, hehehe, I better leave that house. There is no need to suffer. I am single and in case it happens to me, no way to be created like that.

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Yeah really it can be very frustrating but leaving the house will lead to a divorce how does one deal with that?

 

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I am not married. So I do not have this problem. If I encounter this situation, if possible, I will not want to live together with her. But since she is the mother of my husband, I will still give her some basic respect.

 

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No two ways about it than to love her and care for her and pretend not to see all what she does.

 

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Living in a separate home can benefit her as it can help minimize any potential mental and emotional strain.

 

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cherry123 said:

My dear friend is going through a phase like this now. For no just cause the mother-in-law just do mean things to her. How can one deal with this?

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I guess she needs to talk to the mother-in-law in a heart-to-heart way. I hope that it will be an effective one to do.

 

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It all depends on the husband. If the husband loves her, he should stamp his foot down and caution his family to leave his wife alone.

 

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I do not have mean mother in law, and my wife also does not have mean mother in law.

 

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I think the husband needs to intervene and talk to the mother to allow his wife to breathe. it would be helpful that way

 

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You just keep on staying good as a daughter in law so that posterity can judge you right. Just get your husband's support.