It’s hard not to get worked up emotionally when you’re in a tense conversation. After all, a disagreement can feel like a threat. You’re afraid you’re going to have to give up something — your point of view, the way you’re used to doing something, the notion that you’re right, or maybe even power – and your body therefore ramps up for a fight by triggering the sympathetic nervous system.
What number of ways do you think would be great ways to help control how you feel, during conversations at work that drive you up the wall and want to scream out in frustration, or if you want to cry?
These ways could be simple reminders to not think critical of people in those situations, or to just avoid the conversation by leaving as quick as you are able to.
What number of ways do you think would be great ways to help control how you feel, during conversations at work that drive you up the wall and want to scream out in frustration, or if you want to cry?
These ways could be simple reminders to not think critical of people in those situations, or to just avoid the conversation by leaving as quick as you are able to.