Dealing with a lustful relationship

[cherry123]

if you realise that someone is just lusting after you but you love them how would you handle the situation. Do you quit or just Play along?

 

[Ratine]

For me l normal hate that kind of relationship. I would simply quit when l find myself in that situation.

 

[Shavkat]

I may not continue the relationship. If you love someone and it will not be reciprocated, then it is better to end it.

 

[Springtime]

I am not interested in engaging in such a relationship. It will be a total waste of time and I will not enjoy such kind of relationship.

 

[Shavkat]

I am not interested in engaging in such a relationship. It will be a total waste of time and I will not enjoy such kind of relationship.

You have a point. As they said, 'Lusting will not last forever.' It needs to embrace the commitment to be loved and will be forever.

 

[eldavis]

I will try to make them love me instead of lust. If after trying there is still no changes, then there is no need to continue.

 

[Shavkat]

I will try to make them love me instead of lust. If after trying there is still no changes, then there is no need to continue.

A lustful relationship will not last for long. In this sense, this person will just waste his or her time. It is not a good thing for both of them.

 

[cherry123]

Yeah right no need because what the person feels for you is a temporary thing. There's nothing solid about the relationship

 

[Shavkat]

Yeah right no need because what the person feels for you is a temporary thing. There's nothing solid about the relationship

I am with you. There is no need to feel desperate being in this lustful relationship. It is better to end the relationship and the right one will come along in the right time and place.

 

[Fidelia]

The thing is that when once the subject of that lust is placated, such partners don't see anything to hold on to and stay committed to the relationship.

 

[eldavis]

A lustful relationship will not last for long. In this sense, this person will just waste his or her time. It is not a good thing for both of them.

Yes that's why I said I will try make them love me first, and if am not able to, then it's best to move on.

 

[Shavkat]

Yes that's why I said I will try make them love me first, and if am not able to, then it's best to move on.

I agree with you. Loving someone will come in a naturaly way, but it needs mutual. One-sided love should be taken into consideration, too.

 

[cherry123]

I am with you. There is no need to feel desperate being in this lustful relationship. It is better to end the relationship and the right one will come along in the right time and place.

That's right my point exactly. The relationship would be a transactional one and nothing deep or interesting about it.

 

[eldavis]

I agree with you. Loving someone will come in a naturaly way, but it needs mutual. One-sided love should be taken into consideration, too.

One sided love is one of the worse things that can ever happen to anyone cause each day will be filled with pains.

 

[Shavkat]

That's right my point exactly. The relationship would be a transactional one and nothing deep or interesting about it.

You are right. I guess not all people can be like this. I hope they can help themselves to breakfree from such a situation.