Don't let your efforts turn to futility if you follow others' commands or advice. Do what you believe is right. Just relax and never do things in haste for that cracks your brain for not aiming yourself straight to the core of your focus. This usually happens once you invest in something and others interfere with you making you confused. You are already there at the right target but interruptions cause you to feel down when you lose . Dont mind others, believe in your investment and you will see you will be successful and see the new version of yourself being a successful investor. Just do research and watch videos related to the investments of your dreams.