DEFECT. yes, that is what I always hear from people love is blind but lovers see the defect of their love as jealousy without basis. One can also see their love with a bad moral and attitude, but still, they continue loving the person. What a foolish love. It is craziness loving someone with a bad attitude, domineering, judgmental, and cruel. I think, there is no love for the part of the other party. If you love someone show it without mental reservations. There should be give and take of love and mutual understanding.