Reasons you can't be in a polygamous marriage

[cherry123]

What are the reasons you wouldn't want to be a second or third wife even to a rich man. As a man why wouldn't you want to have more than a wife even with your financial stability?





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[Fidelia]

When you are in a polygamous marriage, you are just one of the options in the harem. And you would not have same value as being an only wife.

 

[Shavkat]

I think it is not fair for a woman to share her man with the other women.

 

[Bisolami]

When you are in a polygamous marriage, you are just one of the options in the harem. And you would not have same value as being an only wife.

I think this depends on the man because there are some men who know how to take good care of their home and they will never be a problem between the two wives

 

[Sawe]

I don't believe in a polygamous marriage because I believe in love being between just two people. When one says they romantically love more than one person, I tend to believe that that is lust, not love. That is just how I have grown to believe.

 

[Springtime]

I cannot accept that fact that I have to share my partner with another person. True love to me is between two people. In addition, polygamic marriage may create a lot of family problems.

 

[cherry123]

it is always the family problems for me. The man would leave trails of problems behind as they kick the bucket

 

[Ofonime]

Am a man but I will tell you that there is no way in this planet earth that I can marry two wife, thou my tradition welcome it but I will never be part of that it's a divided attention

 

[cherry123]

Yes,it is a divided attention for people involved in it. You just have to be focused in life to achieve a lot

 

[Stardom22]

For me l can't be in a polygamous marriage because my religion doesn't allow that.

 

[cherry123]

Yes some people can't go into it because of religion. Christianity does not allow polygamy which is fir our own good

 

[arunima]

I can't even withstand the idea of sharing my husband with another woman. Some traditions and cultures welcome it. But personally even if I would have been born into one of those cultures and religions, I would have opposed it fiercely. I can't let the romantic attention divided. Moreover, it will come with other financial problems and also some comparison sort. None of these sound like a good option for a healthy relationship.

 

[Unyime]

I need all the attention to myself. You would get to suffer all forms of neglect in a polygamous marriage because everything has to go round the co wives.