How to maintain self care and love in a relationship

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The thing is that it is not good to be self centred or selfish In a relatuonship but we still have to still maintain self love. So how do one Still prioritize self-love and self-care even in a relationship?
 
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I think there is no conflict between self love and love your partner. You can be yourself and have a sweet relationship with your partner.
You are right. Loving oneself should needs to be carried out before spreading the love to others. Some people forget the importance of self-love and their lives are in darkness with the partners.
 

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It all has to do with communication and understanding each others. Because you both love each other doesn't mean you shouldn't have your personal time.
 

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It all has to do with communication and understanding each others. Because you both love each other doesn't mean you shouldn't have your personal time.
This is the problem for some who lost their self-love. Because of this, their relationship will be greatly affected. The worst scenario, they might separated or even file a divorce case.
 

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This is the problem for some who lost their self-love. Because of this, their relationship will be greatly affected. The worst scenario, they might separated or even file a divorce case.
Yes that's true, they end up depending on the other person to make them happy or feel loved. Then when the person is not able to, they begin to loose love for them.
 

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Yes that's true, they end up depending on the other person to make them happy or feel loved. Then when the person is not able to, they begin to loose love for them.
I also learned that we need to keep our confidence for being independent. If we are so dependent to our love and it did not work out, it will be a disaster.
 

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You first of all have to understand that if you don't love yourself adequacy, you would not be able to love someone. Real love starts from within by loving yourself.
 

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No, Loving oneself cannot be tagged as being selfish. it is just looking out for yourself. we need to sustain and maintain self-love.
 

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A lot of people will only focus on buying gifts and taking cake of the lover, however, you need to remember self care is also very important. Once in a while you need to treat yourself.
 
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