How to maintain self care and love in a relationship

[cherry123]

The thing is that it is not good to be self centred or selfish In a relatuonship but we still have to still maintain self love. So how do one Still prioritize self-love and self-care even in a relationship?

 

[Shavkat]

I agree that we need to sustain and maintain self-love. Loving oneself cannot be tagged as being selfish.

 

[Springtime]

I think there is no conflict between self love and love your partner. You can be yourself and have a sweet relationship with your partner.

 

[Shavkat]

I think there is no conflict between self love and love your partner. You can be yourself and have a sweet relationship with your partner.

You are right. Loving oneself should needs to be carried out before spreading the love to others. Some people forget the importance of self-love and their lives are in darkness with the partners.

 

[eldavis]

It all has to do with communication and understanding each others. Because you both love each other doesn't mean you shouldn't have your personal time.

 

[Shavkat]

It all has to do with communication and understanding each others. Because you both love each other doesn't mean you shouldn't have your personal time.

This is the problem for some who lost their self-love. Because of this, their relationship will be greatly affected. The worst scenario, they might separated or even file a divorce case.

 

[cherry123]

Yes you need to show self care even in a living relationship. You show emotions, empathy and compassion towards yourself

 

[eldavis]

This is the problem for some who lost their self-love. Because of this, their relationship will be greatly affected. The worst scenario, they might separated or even file a divorce case.

Yes that's true, they end up depending on the other person to make them happy or feel loved. Then when the person is not able to, they begin to loose love for them.

 

[Shavkat]

Yes that's true, they end up depending on the other person to make them happy or feel loved. Then when the person is not able to, they begin to loose love for them.

I also learned that we need to keep our confidence for being independent. If we are so dependent to our love and it did not work out, it will be a disaster.

 

[cherry123]

Yes, even in relationship it is good to be independent. You don't have to be too clingy to avoid being depressed

 

[Shavkat]

Yes, even in relationship it is good to be independent. You don't have to be too clingy to avoid being depressed

I agree with you. I had experienced this situation before. That is why I had this panic attack before.

 

[Fidelia]

You first of all have to understand that if you don't love yourself adequacy, you would not be able to love someone. Real love starts from within by loving yourself.

 

[Ratine]

I think by staying focused in being faithful to your partner on the relationship that all what matters.

 

[freelancermaria]

Even when we are in a relationship, it is important to prioritize self-care. By taking care of ourselves, we are better able to care those around us.

 

[Stardom22]

I think that the love for oneself is very vital for that matter. One must love themselves before they can be loved.

 

[cherry123]

No, Loving oneself cannot be tagged as being selfish. it is just looking out for yourself. we need to sustain and maintain self-love.

 

[nomad]

A lot of people will only focus on buying gifts and taking cake of the lover, however, you need to remember self care is also very important. Once in a while you need to treat yourself.

 

[Starmix]

I have to pay attention to myself first like paying myself first before dating or bonding.

 

[King Belieal]

No, Loving oneself cannot be tagged as being selfish. it is just looking out for yourself. we need to sustain and maintain self-love.

You really can't love someone else if you don't learn to love yourself first. I believe people should develop self love first to be able to love another.

 

[Ratine]

For me according to the Christian religion love is the greatest commandment that l should follow and that is the center for everything in the world.