Choosing a friend or a friend choosing you?

[cherry123]

Which one do you think is better? Would you like your friends to choose you or you wait for them to come to you so you know they really want to be your friend?

 

[Springtime]

I this this is mutual. I have three very close friends. We met at high school. We just got along very well, and our friendship grow day by day.

 

[You]

I prefer letting friendships develop more organically. When you wait for people to gravitate towards you naturally, there's an inherent mutual desire and compatibility that forms the foundation. Forced friendships can feel inauthentic.

 

[nomad]

I would like to choose my own friend. When I choose someone my choice will be based on his behavior, temperament, interest, etc.

 

[Sanjeev]

I don't choose a friend but like others to choose me as a friend and I don't know the reason why is it so

 

[eldavis]

Am not good at making friends, so I think it would be better if they make the move, cause I might not.

 

[Shavkat]

I must say that I am a choosy person. So I usually choose my friends to be friended with.

 

[freelancermaria]

I tend to be introverted and selective when it comes to making friends. I seek out people who share a similar vibe to mine.

 

[Sanjeev]

I am also not good at making friends but once I make a friend I don't leave him/her ever.

 

[Etini Willie]

A friend choosing me is not me taking charge of my life. I choose my friends by myself.

 

[cherry123]

Yes, that's always the best option. Go for the friend that you believe have the same wavelength like you. You both are on the same frequency

 

[Pearl]

When choosing a friend chose someone that stick closer than brother that's why I choose my friends.

 

[Kera]

I don't allow people to choose to be friends with me. I am a boss lady and I choose my friends.

 

[timewo]

After being betrayed repeatedly I do not trust anyone and no one is interested in being friends with me, since they will be harassed.