Dealing with the black sheep of the family

[cherry123]

How can deal with an unrepentant family member? do you cut the person off?

 

[Starmix]

Sad to say, the black sheep in my family passed away, but we loved our dear brother despite his attitude.

 

[Hate2Wait]

No it's not easy to cut them off

 

[Starmix]

Black sheep in the family needs help and pity.

 

[cherry123]

Yeah we just have to allow them live , we can't cut them off

 

[Starmix]

Exactly, and love him or her too.

 

[Alberello75]

This is a difficult question to answer and in reality, in my opinion also a difficult issue to solve. anyway in first istance, this depends on who this family member is (parent, brother, husband, wife, etc.)

 

[SHAHID987]

Here we need to compromise with things and people, people do have their positive and negative both, some black sheep sometime becomes the protector, it's us who make them protector or enemy.

 

[Starmix]

Despite condemned a family member as black sheep in the family, but he or she is our sibling and must be loved and cared. It is not all the time that black sheep member in the family go against the standard way of living.

 

[Springtime]

We do not have black Sheep in our family. I think if we do, we will not cut him/her off. We still need to show our care and love to him/her. S(he) may change because of the love from family members.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

You would have to show the black sheep of the family lots of love and he or she would see the need to change somewhere.

 

[King Belieal]

I don't ever believe someone is a black sheep unless they are involved in criminal acts. If it is just normal deviant behaviour, it is nothing to worry about. Life would happen to him or her.

 

[nomad]

I do not know how would anyone do it, we have no black sheep in the family, including the extended family. I guess cutting off is a great solution

 

[IB D]

I do not know how would anyone do it, we have no black sheep in the family, including the extended family. I guess cutting off is a great solution

It is even wrong to cut him off. Very bad to give up on people, especially, family members. Just keep advising and counselling with love.

 

[Shavkat]

My mother used to say that it is best to keep on guiding and giving advice to them. She said, "They will eventually turned to a new leaf in time."

 

[eldavis]

I think it's best you try to understand them, most times the people we see as the black sheep of the family are simply that way because we fail to understand them.

 

[Min George]

I think it's best you try to understand them, most times the people we see as the black sheep of the family are simply that way because we fail to understand them.

That is true. Some people just have their defined family way and anyone that does differently is judged and regarded as a black sheep.