Don't compare yourself to others

[Starmix]

Yes we have individual differences and no two people are alike. It's best to mind the self, and pour all the love.

 

[Stardom22]

There is that need for one to believe in themselves and have the sense of being confident on their businesses.

 

[Starmix]

Even in business it's never good to compare because the more desperate you would become. Compete only if you can.

 

[Sanjeev]

Whereas I believe one should compare with other so that you may know where you stand and get motivated to work hard

 

[Starmix]

Whereas I believe one should compare with other so that you may know where you stand and get motivated to work hard

You get a point, one could get motivated if compare himself to others. It's better that way than envy.

 

[Sanjeev]

That's true. You won't get any thing if you get jealous of others sucess. You need to see yourself.

 

[cherry123]

Yes you can't he them and they can't be you. So just find joy in the little things you have and don't compare yourself

 

[Starmix]

Let's only mind our own affairs to avoid depression for not being successful. Let's just do what's best for us.

 

[Fidelia]

When you start comparing yourself to others, you would get depressed. Understand that everyone has his own pace. Set your own goals specific to your person and run with it.

 

[Starmix]

I agree with you , that's the prize for being envious. Those who compare themselves to others are envious - losers.

 

[astutimeliana723]

Yes, that's right. comparing ourselves with other people will only make us feel stressed and depressed if we are not as lucky as other people. Meanwhile, I prefer to compare myself yesterday with today, so that I can be motivated to continue improving myself.

 

[eldavis]

Does who compare themselves to others are the ones who never show gratitude. They tend to feel they have not achieved anything simply because they are not in the same level as the next person. By this, they end up limiting themselves.

 

[Starmix]

Those who compare themselves to others are too blind to see the reality. There are no two persons alike in appearance and in many ways.

 

[cherry123]

Yes, you need to alwaye trust yourself that you are good the way you are. Not wants to live like the next person

 

[nomad]

Comparison can sometimes become good because you will be encouraged to do good and sometimes bad because it will snatch your peace of mind.

 

[cherry123]

it doesn't even make sure to me. how can I compare my self to another person. it is of no use.

 

[Starmix]

Yes, it is not the best to compare yourself with anybody just know you as a unique person should just do yours your own way too

We cannot be ourselves if we keep on comparing ourselves to others which seem impossible. We have different talents and skills.

 

[Stardom22]

The comparison for yourself to others would make one loosing their focus in life for that matter.

 

[Starmix]

The moment you compare yourself to the person you envied with gives you a sudden down feeling.

 

[AruneBend]

Comparing yourself to others is the easiest way to destroy yourself. Of course, it can have positive aspects. However, too much of it can be very damaging.