Going down on the first date: Does it mean the lady is cheap?

[Fidelia]

I have been hearing people calling some ladies cheap. This is a common phenomena in the region of the world I live. And one thing that defines a cheap lady is giving up the cherry so quick.

Does it mean that going down with a guy on the first date makes a lady cheap?

 

[Ratine]

O don't think so. Giving up with lady for the first date is quite great thing as the partners get to know each other and enjoy the match for the first time with each other. That's actually love in the first sight.

 

[Shavkat]

I think we cannot generalize it. There are some situations where they are madly in love, and hopefully the partners are the right ones. Although it is still influenced by traditional practices and being traditional in beliefs to marry the guy before having this kind of situation, It depends on how other people perceive it.

 

[cherry123]

Well, for me I think it is not decent just getting to meet your date and you get down with the person almost immediately

 

[King Belieal]

Well, for me I think it is not decent just getting to meet your date and you get down with the person almost immediately

If it is someone that you already like and have feelings for, what is the essence of delaying and postponing what would eventually happen?

 

[Ratine]

Nowadays things have changed and that people have adopted that new way of life for sure.

 

[Authenticity101]

I don't think going down on the first date means that one is cheap. The only thing that makes one cheap is if they get intimate with everyone without much effort from them. But if they do it within a relationship, it works out well even if it is the first date.

 

[Ratine]

I think the girl would be feel upset if the boy couldn't ask for it on the first date.

 

[Etini Willie]

It depends on the social disposition of the region. Even the guy you get down with would use it to castigate the lady in my region.

I don't think going down on the first date means that one is cheap. The only thing that makes one cheap is if they get intimate with everyone without much effort from them. But if they do it within a relationship, it works out well even if it is the first date.

 

[Ratine]

In my country mostly girls would like to be that way and if you couldn't ask for that they get confused about you.

 

[Stardom22]

They say that love on the first sight. The first date is very great for the action.

 

[cherry123]

If it is someone that you already like and have feelings for, what is the essence of delaying and postponing what would eventually happen?

It is morally wrong to sleep with someone that isn't your husband. So it is not a crime but morally wrong

 

[Empressiza]

Goind down after first date actually means cheap cause it is too fast and weird

 

[Ratine]

Going down on the first date is actually very right as the actions for the intimacy is really felt by each of the parties in a very great moment.

 

[cherry123]

Goind down after first date actually means cheap cause it is too fast and weird

My point exactly, especially for the women . You need to be ladylike and going down on the first date isn't one of it.

 

[Starmix]

I don't agree on that. A girl will never dare a person without feelings for both of them. If it's a one sided love only the girl feels it then she's cheap.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

In my country mostly girls would like to be that way and if you couldn't ask for that they get confused about you.

Everyone has what works for them. People shouldn't use their own personal beliefs to define a standard for everyone. For some ladies, if you don't make an attempt on the first date, there won't be a second date.

 

[freelancermaria]

I can’t say for sure. It is their life anyway. I have not done it before, though.

 

[cherry123]

I believe that this wouldn't mean anything to the guys but it does to the ladies that's the truth

 

[Kerryjoy]

As I can say cheap ladies are those that only value money and are blinded by money, real women doesn't look on the money but vision.