How can you encourage one that is grieving

[cherry123]

What do you think it is the best way to comfort a grieving heart sometimes I don't know what to do when I meet one

 

[Magnus2022]

Equally, I use to be dumbfounded. Sometimes, I will be staring at the person without single word coming from my mouth. Death is a terrible thing and no word is enough to console the grieved. When I lost my friend, i don't know how to express my feeling to his mother. It is very unfortunate.

 

[fcbetting]

I suck in those situations. I don't know what to say or to do. I can only give some hug but I always stay rather at some distance. I am introvert and I hold back from all such situations.

 

[Bisolami]

Equally, I use to be dumbfounded. Sometimes, I will be staring at the person without single word coming from my mouth. Death is a terrible thing and no word is enough to console the grieved. When I lost my friend, i don't know how to express my feeling to his mother. It is very unfortunate.

The are times that I may even be sad because of the person's story

 

[cherry123]

It can be a very sad period nothing to say.

 

[Stardom22]

I think death is something that is unavoidable and comes just abruptly without any notice. The grieving people should be comforted but l think this depends on the bereaved soul for sure.

 

[Alberello75]

I understand, it's definitely not an easy thing to do! For example, it is almost impossible to try to console a person like me, who even now that I know I will have to spend several years of my life in prison!

 

[Fidelia]

The best way I always feel there is to console someone that is grieving is just being around to help the person with some things. It goes a long way to provide sucour and relief to them.

 

[Springtime]

I think I would just show my support by being with him/her and offer any help s(he) needs. When s(he) is ready to talk, I will listen patiently.

 

[Shavkat]

We just need to be a good listener and be with them whenever they need us to. We cannot interfere how they process of accepting the facts about the root cause of grieving.

 

[Bisolami]

We just need to be a good listener and be with them whenever they need us to. We cannot interfere how they process of accepting the facts about the root cause of grieving.

That is true. We need to make sure that we don’t say things that will annoy them or make them sad. We have to care for them too

 

[Ratine]

Doing so is a very difficult thing for me. The grieving people wouldn't listen untill they tend to be very stubborn.

 

[Shavkat]

That is true. We need to make sure that we don’t say things that will annoy them or make them sad. We have to care for them too

In some instances, they will open up if ready to do so. The grieving stage varies from one person to another. Although it is not normal if they are still grieving more than three months. In this case, he or she needs to seek help from a shrink.

 

[King Belieal]

Sometimes, I don't bother comforting someone who is grieving. I feel allowing them to grieve it out would help them feel better than bottling it in.

 

[Etini Willie]

You just have to tell the person that you feel the pain they are feeling. And tell them to look on God.

 

[Shavkat]

You just have to tell the person that you feel the pain they are feeling. And tell them to look on God.

You are right. We also need to wait for them to burst out their sentiments. If he or she does it, then he or she is ready to move on from the grieving state.

 

[Ratine]

Most people grieve So much if they have been left by the breadwinners and if given some financial support would be a very great thing.

 

[Shavkat]

Most people grieve So much if they have been left by the breadwinners and if given some financial support would be a very great thing.

I agree. There are so many cases like this. A family lost for having someone who provide their financial needs.

 

[nomad]

If I know what he likes to do when in good mood, I will make him do the same thing. For instance if the person likes to dine, I will take him to restaurant, if he enjoys shopping, I will take himn to malls.

 

[eldavis]

I feel the best way would be to simply be there for them. When they need someone to talk to you are there for them.