Are there people close to you wanting to manipulate you? How do you deal with them? Do you follow their manipulative actions or advice? These people dictate you on what to do and you will follow, it seems you do not have your idea or plan for your life. I will never allow someone to trample on my life's decisions. I own my life and it all depends on me on what to do with my life. There was someone who wanted to manipulate me, but I insulted him on his face. What about you?