How to handle breaking up with someone?

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I am wondering how do you cope up when someone broke your heart. My friend is struggling to handle with the situation. Can you give some suggestions?
I just keep reading our conversations. Until I don't feel anymore and I'm always around with my friends that time. It was last year
 
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At first, it is not easy to handle the pain, but I have the mind to rationalize the cause of the breakup. I believe that everything happens for a reason. I have to move on to make life better not bitter.
 

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I am wondering how do you cope up when someone broke your heart. My friend is struggling to handle with the situation. Can you give some suggestions?
Tell your friend to get over it and move on. he shouldn't think about the past but think about the future. Dont allow the situation to worry you much.
 

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I experienced heart broken by someone I trusted a lot. He was my best friend and later became my boyfriend but after 1 year of being in a relationship with him, I saw him with my co-worker walking so affectionately . I felt the world dropped on my shoulder. It was confirmed they cheated me, so I no longer at him and thought him as someone that does not exist on earth.
 

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I've never experienced how it feel to get broken up but in a situation like this what your friend need most his your company to move on.
That's true. When some one experience the breakup in the relationship then he/she needs the company of friends which can make a person's mind light and relaxed.
 

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That's true. When some one experience the breakup in the relationship then he/she needs the company of friends which can make a person's mind light and relaxed.
Been in friends company hasten the healing of the gapping hole in or better still he can get himself occupied Rather to brooding over a spilled milk.
 

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Been in friends company hasten the healing of the gapping hole in or better still he can get himself occupied Rather to brooding over a spilled milk.
Yes, I agree being in friends' company helps a person to get occupied and helps in not things about the broken relationship. I understand it's not easy but there is no harm in trying it.
 

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Yes, I agree being in friends' company helps a person to get occupied and helps in not things about the broken relationship. I understand it's not easy but there is no harm in trying it.
It won't be easy because it's more like an addiction(like getting addicted to someone) but with strong determination to move on with life it becomes easy.
 

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It won't be easy because it's more like an addiction(like getting addicted to someone) but with strong determination to move on with life it becomes easy.
Well, it's not easy to get rid of the addiction so getting over the broken relationship is also not easy but one should have strong willpower to do that.
 

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Well, it's not easy to get rid of the addiction so getting over the broken relationship is also not easy but one should have strong willpower to do that.
That's why I do advice my peers not to over-love but they felt I was talking out of inexperience,in short that's my theory when the love is 'over' heartbreak won't be easily...
 

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That's why I do advice my peers not to over-love but they felt I was talking out of inexperience,in short that's my theory when the love is 'over' heartbreak won't be easily...
But that is obvious when you are in love with someone you don't know when you start overlooking that person. So heartbreak is also obvious.
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I think it is not good to find a special someone at this point. He need to have self-love first.
Self-love is not good sometimes.
 
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That's where we do the mistake. We should love a person but should not love the flaws of a person.
Rather correct those flaws to your taste. Sadly, many still believe its more appreciated loving someone with their flaws which has later leads to heartbreaks.
 

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Rather correct those flaws to your taste. Sadly, many still believe its more appreciated loving someone with their flaws which has later leads to heartbreaks.
I will never do that. Once you start loving the flaws of a person he/she will never know about his/her flaws giving no scope to improve themselves
 

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Break up are hard. There's no formula or quick read to help someone get over a break up. It's really upto you to find a way that better suitable for you to help you get over someone. But one things for sure, to get over a break up you should avoid anything that reminds you of your ex
 

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There's no reason to force someone to love you. Reality hurts but the feeling is temporary. To heal the misery is love itself. What's love without love in return?
 
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