How to maintain independence in a relationship

[cherry123]

Do you think individuals should maintain a kind of independence in a relationship. How do you balance independence and even interdependence in a relationship to avoid a clash?

 

[Shavkat]

Being who you are is how it maintains the total being of oneself. We cannot depend to others.

 

[cherry123]

Yes we just have to strike a balance. Don't try to be too clingy. You love yourself and show love to others as well.

 

[nomad]

When you are in relationship, there is no such thing about maintaining independence. If you crave for independence, I do not think your relationship will be working properly.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

When you are in relationship, there is no such thing about maintaining independence. If you crave for independence, I do not think your relationship will be working properly.

Does it mean that I must always carry the identity of my other half at every turn? Does it mean that I would completely lose my identity?

 

[eldavis]

Before going into any relationship, it's best you set your standards straight, let them know what to expect in the relationship.

 

[freelancermaria]

Before entering the relationship, we each had our own lives. Remembering that we should not lose ourselves when we are in a relationship is essential. I make sure to take time for myself and unwind by going out alone.

 

[Starmix]

My own decisions and plans must not be hampered by being in a relationship. There is no assurance of a relationship to last for good.

 

[cherry123]

Everything good in life needs a balance. You just have to strike a balance. Love your partner but still give them space.

 

[Starmix]

I don't like to stick in a relationship that suffocates me because of the dos and donts.

 

[Ratine]

Understanding the main facts that cause most relationships to break up is very important thing.

 

[King Belieal]

The best way to maintain independence in a relationship is to always know that relationships are not a do or die affair.