interfering in parent's conflict

[cherry123]

Do you think it is right to interfere in a parent's conflict especially if you are sure of the one that is in the wrong. Would it be morrally right to interfere?

 

[Starmix]

You can interfere if your mom is hurt by your dad. You may call a police. That's abuse so it must not be tolerated. But if it's just a petty problem, don't interfere.

 

[bestwriter]

I will not call it interference but a healthy involvement in sorting out differences. Childlren can play a big role in highlighting the plus points of either couple.

 

[cherry123]

I will not call it interference but a healthy involvement in sorting out differences. Childlren can play a big role in highlighting the plus points of either couple.

I like your submission, yes healthy involvement in sorting out differences. I think it would help to quench any disputes

 

[Shavkat]

When I became an adult, I was vocal if things were not right. I can say something when my parents are having their conflicts. It is part of being concerned to save the family's smooth relationships.

 

[King Belieal]

You can interfere if your mom is hurt by your dad. You may call a police. That's abuse so it must not be tolerated. But if it's just a petty problem, don't interfere.

Call a police on your dad? We don't do that in Africa. We stay in the middle of the conflict. Calling the police on your dad would kill your relationship with your dad forever.

 

[Springtime]

I have not encountered such a problem. My dad and my mom loved each other a lot. I seldom heard them arguing or in conflict.

 

[Etini Willie]

Even when they invite me to interfere in their problems, I am reluctant about that. I wouldn't want to take sides with any of them.

 

[nomad]

I think it is ok to interfere in your parents conflict and if needed you also need to mediate the conflict and offer a solution.

 

[IB D]

When you are interfering in your parents conflicts, be sure that you are playing a mediating role and not blaming any party.

 

[freelancermaria]

It depends on the specific situation. I can recall a time from my childhood when I was around five years old. I witnessed my dad yelling at my mom, so I yelled back at him, and as a result, he ended up spanking me. LOL. That experience taught me not to get involved in their arguments anymore. After all, I could not even tell who was telling the truth in the first place.

 

[Sanjeev]

If you know the real cause and know who is wrong then you must interfere otherwise not.

 

[Unyime]

When you are grown up, you have the right to advise your parents when they have conflicts. It is a responsibility.

 

[eldavis]

If they want me to be involved, then that's fine but I won't take saids I we simply state what both parties did right and wrong.

 

[Ratine]

In my culture according to where l come from it's not a wise thing to do that.

 

[Kera]

If they want me to be involved, then that's fine but I won't take saids I we simply state what both parties did right and wrong.

It is very complex. When your point out the wrong of a parent and they don't agree they were wrong, it can make you have a frosty relationship with that parent.

 

[Stardom22]

Of course one can. Especially if you are very sure of what you are saying about.

 

[Ratine]

In my culture the children are not allowed to interrogate on the parents conflict for that reasons.

 

[Stardom22]

For me l can say that l don't have the hurts to point out the mistakes that my parents do commit

 

[cherry123]

Yes I really agree that you don't have to take sides. you just have to mediating and keep it moving