Love at first sight
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First and foremost, love should be defined. Love is not sexual attraction to opposite sex. Love is deeper than fluctuation. Love comes with responsibility. Love comes with understanding the importance of been selfless. Love at first sight is mostly fake love.
You might be attracted to someone for any attributes ( mostly it is physical attraction but it can be something else too) and develop a liking. But then I would be not call it love. Yes, that attraction might lead to true long lasting love if you come to know each other more and better in coming times. Many people find their soulmates through such first time attraction. But then you need to develop this feeling and know each other well before you can say that it is true love. The feelings at first glance are mostly attraction and infatuation. Not love.
Many a times the feelings at first sight are very strong but then they don't sustain for too long. They fade away soon as you know the person well. True love on the other hand grows with time. I do agree that in Many cases the strong feelings at first sight can grow into true love later.
Yah i totally agree with you true love grows with time so seeing someone for the first time and falling in love with that person without getting to know that person very well it can also work out tho I've seen a thing like that but i think true love takes time to form so love at first sight is not love.
I don't believe in the term love at first sight, because usually it's just lust. Because this love is usually related to the physical, while a charming physique is not necessarily a good heart and attitude that will make us able to love him.
I would say that it's more of some attraction and infatuation. This might grow stronger with time as you get to know the person and he/she turns out to be really good. So, it has all chances to grow stronger and become true love. But then the reverse can also happen. As you know the person and know him well, the attraction might fade away.
I personally feel that love at first sight can be for certain tangible and intangible things that are non human like a good song, a good jewelry, some furniture etc. With a human, you might get attracted strongly to some traits, might be a physical one. But then that attraction need not be true love.
I believe in love at first sight because that happened to my nephew. He met his current wife during a trip. They fell for each other as soon as they met. Even they were apart, they kept in touch and now they were married and get along very well.
Some people fall in love at first sight and end up settling down. It is true love, after all. Hehe.
There are quite a few cases where love at first sight has turned into a long beautiful relationship. But then it's not a rule. Many a times the initial attraction fades with time as you get to know the person more and find other sides of the person that you might not be comfortable with.
