What can be done when a partner doesn't feel attraction any longer for the other partner?

[King Belieal]

I have had so many married friends who confide in me that they don't feel attraction any longer for their partner or spouse. They always ask for advise on the next move?

What would you advise a person that has lost that feeling of attraction for his or her partner?

 

[cherry123]

You just need to have a heart to heart talk with your partner. Tell him or her what went wrong and see how you can help to bring the attractiveness back.

 

[Springtime]

In this case, it's difficult to be frank with the other partner. It would hurt his/her feelings. Try to develop some common interests or goal which the family want to achieve.

 

[Empressiza]

i might be heartbroken after the failure but i always make sure i stand up back and be successful in it

 

[cherry123]

i might be heartbroken after the failure but i always make sure i stand up back and be successful in it

Yes, it is to find out what went wrong and start from there to put things right and you build your self esteem from there.

 

[bestwriter]

They must remember the promise they made "For better or for worse until death do us part"

 

[nomad]

If you lose attraction, it is very likely that you also lost love. IN a situation like this it is better to separate and go your own ways.

 

[Etini Willie]

If you lose attraction, it is very likely that you also lost love. IN a situation like this it is better to separate and go your own ways.

I think this is the most realistic thing to do. Trying to stay in a relationship where you are no longer finding the other partner attractive would be like a cross.

 

[Min George]

This is one of the things that make them to say that people should only chase potential partners that are their specs.

 

[freelancermaria]

If the attraction is vanishing, try to resolve any issues. Relationships have their ups and downs, and it is expected not to fall in love every single day. What matters most is making a conscious decision to stay with your partner. However, if all efforts do not work out, ending the relationship is better than being unfaithful.

 

[Shavkat]

It is best to end the relationship. Since it is not working out, it is best to cut it as soon as possible.

 

[Stardom22]

I think the couples should brainstorm some proactive measures to finding the solutions for that matter.

 

[eldavis]

In this kind of situation, it is best you take out time to discuss with your partner and find out what went wrong if there is a way it can be fixed.