What will you do?

[Mikky]

Imagine yourself as a good,calm and handsome married guy. But you caught your wife cheating on your matrimonial bed, as a calm guy you said nothing but a few days later she came up to you saying she is pregnant.
What will you do?

 

[junrose123]

I think it is hard answer such question considering that I don't have such experiences but if it will happen for sure I will broke with my wife.

 

[Hate2Wait]

There is no other option then to get divorce and part with her but if possible then people will go for DNA to know who impregnated her.

 

[LoukiaCharilaou]

This is so unpleasant! In this case,it is impossible to be with this person.

 

[fcbetting]

Probably, 90%, I would ask divorce but if child is my, I am not sure how would I take care for it with mother.

 

[Edulady]

Hahaha. Being a calm guy must be tough. You find someone you made a vow to, spent years together cheating on you with somebody else , matters worse on the same bed you have slept in and you wonder how long they have been doing that, and you say nothing! Then continue to sleep on the same bed, spend time with the same person who cheated on you for days till she says shes pregnant then you have an issue. I would hàve raised a storm the minute i find them in bed. That same time I would have filled for divorce, chased her out since I have reasonble doubt to do so I would make sure they don't get
a cent from the divorce settlement. I am curious, is the calm guy on some sort of medication to keep him calm?

 

[cherry123]

Dont waste time send her packing unless you are sure the child is yours

 

[Springtime]

I'll tell her honestly I caught her and request to do a DNA test. But the relationship is broken. If the child is mine, I'll discuss custody issue with her.

 

[Shavkat]

At that right moment, the marriage will be ended. Why should I wait for her to get pregnant? It is better to end it than feeling cheated for the rest of my lives.

 

[eldavis]

I don't even want to imagine this because I don't want this to happen to me. I have never cheated so I don't want to be cheated on.

 

[Shavkat]

I don't even want to imagine this because I don't want this to happen to me. I have never cheated so I don't want to be cheated on.

It is not a good feeling to be cheated on. Unfortunately, some people do experience this in real life. I hope it would not happen to me either.

 

[Unyime]

Like today what I will do is to read my books attend church services do some washing and hang out with friends.

 

[nomad]

I cannot tolerate cheating, I cannot forgive anyone who cheats on me. Not just on relationship but on everything

 

[Sawe]

Why would you remain calm after catching her cheating on you red handed? Personally, cheating is a non negotiable deal breaker. I will breakup with you or get a divorce immediately.

 

[eldavis]

It is not a good feeling to be cheated on. Unfortunately, some people do experience this in real life. I hope it would not happen to me either.

Yes it's a painful experience, I won't want to experience this and I also do not want to be in a situation where i would put someone else In this position.