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But some aren't ready to show it because they can't risk loosing their partner.
Important things to do before marriage
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Yeah some of it. He showed his true color too. He is more emotional than me and he is very alert about me. Right now he is curious what I'm replying to you. But yeah he knows that I'm here. He is still thinking about it that if he will join. I don't want to force him and its the least I can do for him because he never force me to do something that I don't want to do.
Here is the most important thing that you need to know BEFORE you get married. Can you trust that person behind your back? I knew a girl who did a "trust test". She was going to get married. She told him she needed to visit her mother and that she would gone for "a while". He cheated on her as soon as she was gone. Well! They did NOT get married.
The second most important thing is: Can you trust them with your money? I knew another girl who made the mistake of putting her husband on her bank accounts. He was always BROKE! She was serving in the military. As soon as she was called to report for duty and left him behind, he drained her bank account. Do I need to say more?
FIDELITY and MONEY MATTERS. Check those two things, if you don't check nothing else!
The second most important thing is: Can you trust them with your money? I knew another girl who made the mistake of putting her husband on her bank accounts. He was always BROKE! She was serving in the military. As soon as she was called to report for duty and left him behind, he drained her bank account. Do I need to say more?
FIDELITY and MONEY MATTERS. Check those two things, if you don't check nothing else!
True. You really have to observe and test that person if he/she deserves it.
And i have seen a lot of that happen. Divorce rates have really increased since the olden days. I think some times we should ask our grandparents hownit came that they stayed in thier happy marriages even up to now.Solid point, some rushed into marriage later to discover it was too early
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Yeah, that true.
Seems a lot is needed to learn from our old gramps especially "marital issues".
That's lovely. Have you both met face to face already?
We'll meet soon in person.
Make sure the person you will marry is goid enough for the rest of your life. Make sure you will not be tired dealing with him or her forever lol. Monetary consideration is also necessary. When you are married you will take responsibility of your finances. Marriage is also a business partnership and both must cooperate with each other.
Marriage is a big deal to me and for me i would do a proper research on the person and the family. The financial capability of your spouse and health status is very important. I know love is also important but there certain factors that one needs to know so as to be able to deal with future challanges when they get married.
It is important to check for sexual compatibility before you move ahead.
The most important thing one has to do before the marriage is to practice self development and saving money for the family.
Most people would rush getting married without making enough preparations for the same. This however facilitate the poverty and miserable lives for the people.
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Most people would rush getting married without making enough preparations for the same. This however facilitate the poverty and miserable lives for the people.
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A six month courtship is a must when you get to know each other not just each other but each other's families. Then comes planning the wedding with all the frills.
